House Concert with Christine Sparks

When : Saturday 21st February 2015 Where : 11 Crofters Way, East Whitburn, EH47 8ES     So thrilled to be able to invite you to this special event! Christine is a beautiful Being, and an amazing artist, and it was our pleasure to see her perform recently. Here’s what you need to know:> You are invited to a house concert by Scottish Celtic acoustic recording artist, Christine Sparks, at our home on Saturday 21st February as part of her 2015 nationwide house concert tour promoting the release of her new album The Robert Burns Collection, Vol 1. >>>This is an RSVP event 🙂 Please make sure to reply so we can organise seats & nibbles, thank you!<<< On the night, please arrive at around 7pm for a pre-concert mingle and a chance to meet and speak to Christine. The concert will start promptly at 8pm Renowned Scottish folk singer/guru and World Champion Motivational Speaker, Watt Nicoll, said this of Christine’s voice: “Christine has the quality of voice that Burns’ words deserve. Both are masters of exposing raw, natural emotion, creating timeless masterpieces. I have shared her voice with a number of people who are aware of perfection in the human voice and all agree that Christine is as good as it gets.” Her album was Celtic Music Radio’s album of the week and during Celtic Connections, Christine was recently broadcast live from Glasgow’s Royal Concert Hall. The Scotsman newspaper declared Christine – “A Must See at The Fringe”, so don’t miss this wonderful opportunity to experience a Christine Sparks performance in such an intimate and connective environment.  ...

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